Do you know when to send a romantic letter? Many people save romantic letters only for those red letter days of romance: Valentine’s Day, anniversaries, a wedding day. Sending a romantic letter shouldn’t be reserved for just the typical days of love. A romantic letter can make any day a special day between lovers. It can transform a plain old week day into a new romantic holiday. Sending an unexpected romantic letter tells a loved one that he/she is thought of on those days when no one said this is a day to say I love you.

Some of the best times to send a romantic letter though are those days when there seems to be no reason whatsoever for writing a love letter. Consider sending a romantic letter not just when your loved one looked particularly beautiful. A romantic letter may be particularly appreciated when a woman is feeling like she doesn’t look her best. A loving letter sent by a wife when a husband is feeling out of shape or overweight can be both a pick me up and an incentive. Of course, a person might want to send a letter after a night of sensual bliss. How exciting in later years to pick up a missive and recall a moment of passion. A romantic letter might even inspire another episode of lovemaking. Again, though sending an unexpected romantic letter in the middle of a stressful week can lift a person’s spirits and remind him/her why the hard work is all worth it.

What can be more romantic than sending a handwritten love letter to your loved one, full of romantic words and genuine feelings you have for him/her? Love letters are one of the best ways to show your special loved ones how you feel for them and how much you love them.

A heartfelt love letter also makes the perfect gift for Valentine’s Day, but you don’t have to just limit yourself to that specific day. Every day is a great opportunity to make your loved one happy by sharing your deepest feelings with him/her.

The great thing about love letters is that you don’t have to be a poet or a skilled “writer” to be able to write them. Everyone – and I really mean “everyone” – can do it.

Because they are just about putting your romantic feelings into words genuinely – even in very simple words. This openness is what makes love letters special.

To write a more romantic and heart warming letter, here are some questions that will give you good ideas to write about:

Idea #1:

What was the first time you felt you were in love with him/her? Did anything special happen that made you realize your love?

You can describe in clear details how it happened and how you felt and it will mean the world to your loved one. I promise.

Idea #2:

What is the #1 thing he/she has that makes you feel so much in love with him/her whenever you think about it? It could be about looks or about personality.

For example you may say “the way her face shines when she smiles”, or “the way his eyes always bring peace and love to me when I look into them.”

Idea #3:

What positive changes have you made since he/she has entered your life? What valuable lessons have you learned from him/her?

For example it could be that before you met him/her, you were pretty shy and didn’t fully believe in yourself and your unique abilities, but he/she helped you love yourself more and be proud of who you are.

When your loved one reads this, she will practically feel on clouds because he/she sees what a big difference he/she had made in your life.

Idea #4:

It’s also a good idea to include a heartfelt romantic love poem at the end or the beginning of your letter. Sometimes nothing can show how we feel better and deeper than a good poem.

Idea #5:

And as the last tip: Don’t forget to say “I Love You” at the end of your letter. This simple yet effective sentence will really seal the deal in your loved one’s mind.

Wish you a wonderful life full of love,